Date 1: Chinese-Japanese Lolita Fashonista in Hong Kong

She was a girl I approached and went on a Date 1 straight at the apartment during my trip to Hong Kong last month.

In general, I’m very neutral in term of Asian girls. I don’t especially like them but I don’t especially dislike them either. But she was one of the hottest Asian girls, I’ve ever approached and gone on a date with. Definitely a solid 8. I had 2 lays during this trip. The Indonesian intern and a Filipina [1]. Both of them were new flags. But I would have traded those two lays and flags with this Lolita Chinese-Japanese in a heartbeat!

The Approach

It was on November 16, in the Tsim Sha Tsui MRT around 20:00. She walked passed me and was looking at her phone. She was really sexy, dressed in a Lolita Fashion style, with cat pattern tights and black heeled shoes with a black mini-skirt. She was pretty slim with what seems to be firm round boobs. I’m not sure but I thought I got a quick IOI. I think I saw her looking up for a second. It would have definitely regretted it hard if I wouldn’t have approached this one.


Closes enough with a less dolly face.


I front stopped her. I opened by telling her she was cute and had an usual style. She replied “Really?!” and I replied back ironically “No, you don’t. Obviously, all girls here dressed like you”. I continued saying that she was Japanese with this Lolita style. She laughed and replied that she was half Japanese half Chinese and was born in Shanghai and asked me where I was from and what I was doing Hong Kong. I just replied and returned the question back to her. She said she moved there only a couple of months ago and has been looking for a job. I noticed that she started to make a step toward the exit. I called it out. She told me that she was on her way to meet some friends to see a movie and she was late already and that the movie was about to start. She specified that her friends were 1 girl and 1 guy and she was not involved with the guy. It was a good sign as she basically wanted me to know that she was single.

Anyway, so I went for the number close by telling her first that she was attractive and she said straight away that she found me attractive too. Then we exchanged numbers.


I’m not calling this texting/messaging because there were almost none. I sent her the feeler message and replied with a call.  Maybe you guys had this kind of experience but ever since I started to game, I’ve never had a girl call and not text at all.

We did some chit-chat over the phone for like 5 minutes and I asked her out. We agree to meet at Central for some wine on November 20.

Then, I think the next day, she called again, saying it was weird, that she didn’t know me. I did some “agree and amplify” a bit but stopped when I noticed she was serious and genuinely concerned about going out with a random guy for alcoholic drinks. She suggested just to get a coffee at a Starbucks closer to her place in Wan Chai. I settled and agreed.

The day before the date, she called to confirm the date. But then on the date day, while I just arrived at the Starbucks, she called me saying she was not coming, calling out it was too weird, not normal, not safe enough for her and got cold feet. I was pissed but I thought it didn’t make sense to convince her over the phone and basically gave up on seeing and told her I understood. And well, if you have been gaming enough, you know girls flake, gosh, disappear suddenly and no-show on dates happen as well. It still pisses me off but I got used to it and take it as “part of the game”.

But then, to my surprise, she called me at around midnight, asking me where I was. I told her that I was home. She was in a taxi and she can come to my place and asked me to tell the driver my address. I did and about 5-10 minutes later, she called again and said she was outside.

In my mind, I was like “WTF”, how can you go from not feeling comfortable and safe with a random guy in a public place to coming straight to a guy’s place!

Anyway, I went down to get her. She had a sexy tight low cut black dress. She was stunning!

In the apartment, we sat at the bar table, on high chairs, across from each other. She went on a monologue. She started in English but then switched to Cantonese. I can understand Cantonese more than I can speak. So basically she was speaking in Cantonese and I was replying in Engish. The monologue was her apologizing, explaining again that it was weird and not normal but still thought I was interesting and cute.

I didn’t jump on her. I just called her out on her behavior in a teasy way and with a smile. She giggled. I went to open a bottle of wine and offered her some ice cream.

She also told me she was 30 years old. I was very surprized. I would have given her 20. But I guess with Asians you never know.

We moved to the couch with the ice cream and wine. She told me about her life in Shanghai. I told her about Europe and Russia, and ran the photo routine. We got very close while running the photo routine. There were definitely some sparkles between us. I reached out for the hand, then moved her hair, then put her hair behind her ears. Finally leaned it for the kiss. She took it and kissed me back. I stopped and played with her hands again, verbally escalated by telling her she looked quite sexy with this dress. She blushed and I put her in for another kiss with some tongue this time. I rolled back, picked the emptied bowls and went to put them in the sink. I got back to her and refill our glasses with more wine.

I did a bit more comfort about our family this time and we kissed again, made out a bit but she would stop any further physical escalation. When my hand would get too close to her ass, she would use her hands to put them away. If the made-out would turn her too much on, she would slow it down. She would never hold hands for too long. Sometimes she would grab mine but would let it go very quickly. So I decided to roll back again for more comfort chit-chat about “hopes and dreams” before getting back to another kissing session but she would still not let me escalate.

I think it was almost 2 in the morning when she said that she had to go. I tried to make her stay by pulling her back to the couch but she would stand up again. I decided not to insist or it would feel needy. But we agreed to meet again two days later before she left in a taxi.

Unfortunately, she ghosted me after that. I messaged her but didn’t reply/called back. I tried to call her once but she didn’t pick up.

I will never know for sure but she definitely fancied me and I think it was all too “not normal” and too fast for her. She was seriously hot! So I have some regrets. I could have taken it slower but at the same time, I was running out of time in Hong Kong.

[1] It will be the next post


Lay with a small Indonesian intern in Hong Kong

Last month, I was in Hong Kong. Not a Daygame Jaunt, but proper regular holidays to get great food, visiting friends and family and taking care of some administrative stuff. But I guess it’s hard not to do some Daygame wherever you go.

It was a pretty straightforward Date 1 lay and an approach off an IOI and she found me attractive off the bat because of my J-Pop-ish look and style. She was a low 6 and the first girl that was available for a date. She was also my first Indonesian lay.


I was about to go take the MTR at the Sheung Wan station when I saw her. She gave an IOI, she looked and smiled at me. After she passed by, I turned back my neck, she was looking at me and obviously noticed that I look back. I guess she was feeling embarrassed. So she turned back kept on working. Again, she was Ok-6-cute-ish. It was my second day in Hong Kong and quality has been not good at all up until then. So I ran after her and front stopped her.


Closes enough


She flashed a smile and had anime-like eyes even before I said a word. I opened with “You know I saw you checking me out”. She was nervous, embarrassed and avoiding my eye contacts. I called it out and told her that it was ok and that I would do the talking. I went with the classic animal comparison tease – a shy hamster. She was dressed very formally and all back so I assumed she was a divorce lawyer. She laughed and said she was working in an investment bank in compliance. I thought she was a local Hong Kong girl but it turned out she was Indonesian in Hong Kong for an internship until next year.

I told about what I was doing in Hong Kong and that I was French. She reacted that I look like a Japanese Pop singer. I busted out laugh! She showed me some pictures of some singers on her phone. She was a fan of J-Pop and K-Pop music. She looked very on, so I tried to get her to iDate and see if I can go for a SDL. Unfortunately, she was on her way to hang out with other interns. So I number closed her.

Messaging on WhatsApp

The messaging was easy. I sent her the feeler in the evening. She replied straight away saying how happy she was that we met and that she was still hanging out her intern group.

I messaged her to make sure to go crazy like proper interns abroad. She said she was not that kind of girl. I followed up with a date request for the next day. But she couldn’t but offer another day, two days later.

Date 1

During the first in Hong Kong, I was living close to the Sheung Wan MTR so this where I arranged to meet up. She showed up dolled up, black sandal heel shoes, black mini-skirt, and a tight white tank top. She was a low 6 as mentioned before but did appreciate the effort and her feminine style. Oh! Obviously, it was a very good sign!

I led her to the Jaa Bar, a couple of blocks from the studio I was staying at. There were quite a lot of people. So at the beginning, we settled for the bar. I got a beer and she got a glass of white wine. We started the small talk chit-chat for like 30 minutes. Hobbies, her job, a bit on her family. She asked me a couple of questions about my life. I was impressed by the fact that I’ve lived in different countries. Then I saw that some people on a table with a couch were leaving. I grabbed her drink and mine and moved to the table. She just followed me. It was just a couch, we had to sit next to each other. I started to ask her travel questions. From there, it’s easy to move into the photo routine.

She told me she had only been traveling in Asia and her favorite city in Tokyo. She has been there only once but wishes to live there someday but it’s quite an expensive city to live in. I asked her if she had some pictures her trip to Tokyo. She grabbed her phone, opened her Instagram and showed me a few pictures from Tokyo and Seoul. At the point, we were lap-to-lap.

Then I pulled out my phone and showed her pictures (photo routine) myself. She was fascinating St. Peterburg and Moscow covered in snow. But in general, like always when I do the photo routine, I tell some DHV stories. She was totally impressed by my life and all the countries I’ve lived it.

Our faces were closed. I just looked at her in the eyes with a smile and we both leaned in for a kiss. Then I played a bit with her hair and kissed her again.

I think we were around 90 minutes into the date and went for the bounce back by saying that I have a bottle of wine at mine and it would be quieter there. We stood up, stopped by the bar to pay the bill and headed to my place.

The studio was on the 6th floor with no lift. She was too tired with her shoes half way. So we had to stop for a couple of minutes for a break. In the apartment, she was feeling nervous, which is very normal. So I took the bottle of wine and the glasses and lead of one floor up to the rooftop. We sat on a small cube. We were not talking much. I stood up and went closer to the edge a couple of times. I was actually genuinely enjoying the view.

I told her that I had to enjoy this weather as back in St. Peterburg it will be cold, windy and dark. She just replied some blabla about how she wouldn’t be able to live in cold country.

Then I went back to sit next to her and pulled her in for a make out. She was getting more and more on. I started to put my hand under her top for a skin-to-skin kino. She just got more into the makeout.

I grabbed her hand and led her back down to the studio. Back inside, I kissed her against the wall. Then I carried her and put her on the bed. She said it was too fast. I just replied “Yeah it is. This is crazy” but kept kissing her. I stopped a bit just to take off my tank and went back on her for more makeout.

I put my hand under her skirt and moved it slowly up until I reached her pussy and started to finger her over her pantie. She was wet for sure. Then I put my hand under her pantie and fingered properly until she moaned.

I took out her skirt. She took out her top while I was taking off my jeans. Then, when I was about to pull down her pantie, she asked her magic question “Do you have a condom?”. I took out the condom from my wallet and the rest is history.

Post-sex talk

She told me she knew that sex was a possibility when she agreed to meet me. She only had sex with one guy before. But she was sure she wanted sex when I kissed her at the bar.

She also mentioned that she has been on many dates with locals, Americans, Koreans and Japanese from Tinder but none escalated.

I got the confirmation that she found me attractive because I have a J-Pop style and admitted that she enjoyed checking out my ass while I was standing up close to the edge on the rooftop.


Date 2 with a Russian Tourist Student

Russian Tourist Student
Like with less make-up and no, she doesn’t know how to make this kind of seductive look.

This just a post on Date 2 after she got back from Prague. You can read the approach and the Date 1 here.

Messaging on WhatsApp

The messaging was straightforward and she is not much of a texter in general. She messaged me when she got back from Prague saying that she was back and it was cold in St. Peterburg. I told that I’d be happy to warm her up. She just agreed. So I went for the Date request on Wednesday but she suggested Thursday night. I just agreed.

Date 2

We met at Mayakovskaya at 20:00 like last time. There was another talk at the Howl Bar so I told her the the Kafe-Bar Gastrolor. We sat on a table with two opposite couches.

She told me about Prague and told me that she and her friends got approached a few times in the streets. No wonder!

She was wearing her glasses. I actually found her amazing sexy with them. But I teased her about looking like a strict school teacher. She didn’t like it and took off the glasses and put them into her bag. Her phone was buzzing with messages and notifications. But she ignored all of them.

I told her a bit more about Hong Kong and what I was planning to do there. I forgot how you got into this topic but she told me quite a few personal things about her family. She lost her mother while she was a kids and her and her brother got raised by her dad.

She also mentioned without me asking her that her dad doesn’t know she was on a date with me. I joked about it saying that if he would know, she will probably come with a kalashnikov ready to shot me. Apparently, he is very protective. I guess it makes sense, he did raise her by himself. It got a bit emotional and her eyes were watering. So I teased her about being a little girl, she laughed and hit me.

I went to the bathroom and when I got back, I told her to move a bit. She did and I just sat next to her.

I asked her to show me some photos from Prague. So she grabbed her phone and showed me a few photo of her at the Prague cattle and on the old town square. I pulled out my phone and showed her also pictures from Prague, from when I was on a jaunt there.

I ran the ring routine for a good 5-10 minutes while taking her hand and then pulled her in for a kiss. This time, she kissed me back and got more into it and it was going toward a makeout. But I stopped and told her it was too fast and I was not that easy. She smiled and said that it was usually girls who use this line.

I leaned in for another kiss, squeezed her hand, played a bit with her hair and checked out her earnings. We kissed again, full make out this time.

I tried to bounce her back a couple of times but this time she was saying that it was too fast and that she had to go back home soon or her dad will really come with a Kalashnikov. It was a bit past midnight if I remembered well. I knew from Date 1 that she needs more dates.

She ordered an Uber and the date ended.



Nightgame set and Date 1 with Polish Erasmus Student

She is a girl I approached when I was out in some kind of bar/restaurant that turned into a nightclub at night, Takao [1]. We made out like horny teenager at the bar but got cockblocked by her friend. To be fair, when I approached her I had one too many beers, counting the two pints I had at the Howl bar. I still got her number and got her out on a Date 1 where I didn’t even go for the kiss. But as “beta” as it sounds like it was one of the most enjoyable dates I had this year.

Kinda like her

The set

It was not planning to go there. I was last minute. It was around 21:00, I was in the Howl bat, sitting at the bar, just enjoying a pint of beer [2] and doing some text game. I was feeling fine and still have a lot of energy in my tank. So I messaged a female friend that organized parties and quite a party girl herself, asking her she had any plans that night. She told me she was in Takao with a few friends of hers and she invited me to join her. Takao is only a couple of blocs again from my place and the Howl bar so I could go home anytime.

When I arrived, I greeted my friend and she introduced me to her groups of friends, they were only couples. After some small talk, I went to the bar to get a beer. While waiting for my pint, I did my first approach there and I got a “no English”.

The quality was really hight, many girls in sexy outfits, many were not wearing bra. Pure party girls. Many people were already tipsy. Some guys were fighting already and bouncers had to throw them out. It was very noisy, most girls were on the dance floor.

Anyway, I went back to the table and talked a bit with my friend for a while. She doesn’t know I game so to speak but I have been to many of her parties targeting the French communities and she had seen me “talking” to many girls before. So I didn’t feel bad leaving her to approach. I opened 3 girls are the bar and got shut down. Then I finished my pint so ordering another one. I opened the girl that was waiting for her drink, next to me she spoke zero English. I got my second beers, a went to the area closer to the stairs. It was a bit quieter. I did 2 sets to nowhere. It was terrible so I went back to the table to talk my friend and her friends, and tweeting how terrible my nightgame is.

I finished my second beers and I went to go home to rest and daygame the next day after a proper rest. But my friend convinced me to stay and she ordered me another pint. I was thinking just one more pint. This is when I saw a very cute blond girl with a sexy black dress. She noticed that I was checking her out and smiled. I don’t go approach on the dance floor. Too hard, not enough practice, not drunk yet. haha!

But a couple of minutes later, she went to the beer to order a glass of wine. That’s when I went it. I opened with “I know you know that I was checking you out”. To my surprise, she spoke fluently English with a proper Amercian accent. I complimented her on her dress but saying that it was a bit too short. She replied cheekily “Yeah but you like it”. I didn’t reply anything back and just smiled. She hooked by asking me if I was an exchange student. I laughed and told her I was living in St. Peterburg. She told me she was Polish doing her university in the Netherlands and on Erasmus semester. I asked if she came alone. She pointed at friends, all girls, that were dancing on the dance floor. I didn’t think like bouncing her to the table with my friend and her friends were good. So I asked her if she had a table. She pointed at the table, at the opposite of the dance floor and closed to windows.

I just led her there by the hand. We sat on the couch and it happened rather fast. No chit-chat. It’s hard to explain but there were sparkles in our eyes. We could both feel some sexual tension. I just pulled her in for a kiss. I stopped and she kissed me back. Then we were making out like horny teenagers for a good 5 minutes or so. Then one of her friends came. I tried to introduce myself but she just pulled her out and dragged her to the dance floor. But she came back, apologizing and telling me she had too much to drink and that her friend was right. She shouldn’t make out with some random guys at a club. I just said it was ok but that obviously I found her attractive and got her number.

Messaging on WhatsApp

The messaging part was easy. She was reactive on WhatsApp and was sending 2-3 messages in a row. She was very formal and very polite. I teased her about it. After a few back and forth messages I invited her out and she took the first request. But almost canceled on the day before she just got back from a trip to Oxford in the Morning and haven’t slept much the past couple of nights. It took a bit of convincing but the key message was the following.

Me: “You are so formal that I’m trying to reciprocate but in my head I just wanna tell you to move your ass!”

Her: “Haha! That’s probably more motivating than any formal invitations”

Date 1

This date is probably boring for you readers as nothing happened. I didn’t even try to physically escalate. No kino and no kiss attempt. But as mentioned at the beginning of this post, it was still one of the best dates I’ve had in a while. I did verbally escalate and hopefully, my sub-communication part was solid enough.

I took her to the Howl bar at first. But I bounced straight away to another bar called Kafe-Bar Gastrolor, as there was a talk about to start [3].

At the Kafe-Bar Gastrolor, we were sitting on a couch but across from each other. I ordered two glasses of wine and we started to talk and she was very interesting and quite smart. She is studying in an elite business school program, an alliance of the best business schools in Europe, called the CEMS [4]. But somehow, she was pretty down the Earth and the most interesting part about her was her many many stories around the world. She was DHVing me. I told her about myself (family, hobbies and values). But basically, most of the time, I hardly connect or go into deep comfort with girls on first dates. The only attraction and seduction were a bit of verbal, such as I told her she had nice legs and that it was hard to focus sometimes, the exchange of eye contact and smiles. Time just flew and it was already past midnight and she had to catch the last metro. I know! I know! I’m such a beta!

On my way home,  I was a bit pissed at myself and thinking that I would have escalated more and at least try to kiss her like I usually do. I thought that I had friendzoned myself.

We resumed messaging on WhatsApp and it has been going well and flirty. I went on a holidays to Hong Kong a couple of days after. Now she is a university trip to Moscow-Tallinn-Riga.

[1] If you’ve been to St. Peterburg, you probably know this place.

[2] I took many dates there that the staff knows me and became a regular.

[3] Those talks haven’t been happening more and more often. I might have to think about another main date venue.

[4] I just to hang out with this kind of people for years.

Date 2 with a Russian Electrical Engineer

The rest of the story so far with the Electrical Engineer. Date 1 report is here.

Russian Electrical Engineer
She was actually cuter and slimmer

Messaging over WhatsApp

I pinged her the next day when I was having a very late lunch saying that I had a crazy day. She replied that she was quite busy too but that she would head home soon.

She pinged me later that night that she was finally in her bed. I replied that I was sweating at the gym. Then she didn’t message for 3 days. So I pinged her “Alive?! 😉” [1]. She replied straight away that she was sick. I sent her a picture of a cartoon sick cat. She replied that it was a cute cat followed by a “How are you?”. I didn’t reply to her question and messaged her “A few hours and it’s the weekend”. She replied that luckily she finishes work at 16:00 on Fridays and that she will go buy a lot of food and wines. I teased her by telling that she could cook for me but she took it seriously and replied if I always force sick people to cook for me. I agreed and amplified and called out that I was just teasing her. She replied that she was not in the mood.

I played the Hello Kitty pajama tease. She laughed and replied that she does have something similar. But then she got back to being in a mad mood again. I messaged her that I’ll go for a couple of pints with some colleagues and the conversion ended there that day.

The next day, Saturday, she messaged me in the middle of the afternoon if I had any plans in a few hours because she will be in the center. I was thinking that this was good! Apparently, it was not feeling sick anymore. I told her that I had to do some bookings for New Year Eve and had to go to an Aeroflot agency to correct something on my flight ticket to Hong Kong but that she could come to mine for ice cream and wine later. She replied that she will be in the center around 19:30.

I told her to meet at 20:00 at Mayakovkaya like on Date 1. We met and walked straight to my place.

Date 2

She got into my place. We took off our shoes and I gave her a little tour before she made herself comfortable on the couch while I put on some music and poured the wine.

I went to join her on the couch with the 2 glasses of wine and went into normal comfort chit-chat for a good 30-45 minutes or so about our week. I told her about my New Year Eve plan and what I was going to see in Hong Kong. She showed me more pictures of her multiple trips to Italy.

We finished our glasses. So I stood up and went to get the bottle. At the same time, I went grab the ice cream from the freezer.

When I got back on the couch, she called out my game “move” about the chocolate and box of cookies on the table about being for girls that I bring back. I laughed as she was right on. I just agreed and amplified as usual by saying that “Yeah you got me, I’m serial dater”. She just laughed.

After that, I started to verbally and physical escalate by telling her that I missed her legs, grabbing them and putting them over my laps. I was gently stocking them while drinking my wine. She totally complied. Then I took her glass of wine, put it on the table and pulled her in for a kiss, which quickly turned into a make-out for a few minutes.

I rolled back and we resumed drinking our glass and finished them. I poured more wine, which turned on to be a mistake as she is a light drinker but I didn’t know at that moment. But you guys will understand later.

We went into more sexual topics. She told me that she has kissed a girl before and thought it was like kissing a sister. I asked her if she would consider having sex with a girl. She replied that she was not interested. At the point, the alcohol was starting to affect her a bit and was a bit tipsy. But I kept going with sexual questions. I asked her what kind of lingerie she likes to wear to turn on a guy before having sex. She actually pulled out her phone and showed me a selfie of her wearing it. It was a black semi-transparent set of bra and pantie.

At this point, I thought it was in the bag. I continued a bit by asking her if she was wearing it now. She replied “no”. I asked her to finish her glass and she did. Then I grabbed her legs again pulled them over my labs and we were making out. It got heavier and heavier. So I picked her up a bit and made her sat on my laps. Hands were wandering. She was wearing a white dress. So I unzipped it from her back. The dress was half down to her hips. We were still making out. At some point, I grabbed her boobs over her bra. I put her hand on my cock over my jeans. I tried to put it under the jean but she wouldn’t comply. I rolled back the bit the escalation and we were just making out some more for a while.

Then I resumed escalating. I picked her up and carried her to the bedroom and threw up on the bed. I was on the top and we made out some more. Then suddenly, she asked me to stop saying that she was not feeling well. It was the alcohol combined with the fact that she was feeling sick the day before. I was still surprised. She only had 3 glasses of wines.

She went to use the bathroom for a few minutes. When she got back she said she just needed to lay down. About 10 minutes after, she said that she should go and put her dress back on and went to the hall to put her shoes on. I thought I was a bad idea because I don’t think she would have made it home. She lives close to an hour away from the center. I told her that and eventually she decided to stay. She went back to my room and just collapsed for a few minutes. Then she asked me if I had a t-shirt. I gave her a tank. She took off her dress, put the tank on and slept. I was not feeling tired yet, was reflecting on the night and had blue balls. So I went to the living room to finish my glass of wine while messaging RoyWalker and RickyRoma about the situation. I went to sleep next to her about an hour later.

In the morning, she was hungover and feeling a bit ashamed. I made her breakfast and gave her a paracetamol tab. She left at around noon.

I didn’t have time to meet her again before going to Hong Kong. We have been messaging but she got less reactive and invested. I didn’t have time to message much while in Hong Kong. I guess I’ll find out more next week if I will still be able to take her out for a Date 3. Fingers crossed!

[1] Credits to Tom Torero.

Date 1 with a Russian Tourist Student

The approach

It was around 20:00 on a Saturday. I was on the last leg of my Daygame session when it saw her walking the other direction. She was in her gym gear, with yoga pant and a sweater. She had a hair tight up in a ponytail and was walking rather fast. But she had a cute sexy peach ass and a very cute face. I followed her for a couple of minutes she was surrounded by people.

Russian Tourist Student.jpg
Like with less make-up and no, she doesn’t know how to make this kind of seductive look.

I front stopped on at the first opportunity. She stopped but looked confused. It was far from being my best Daygame set. I told her she was cute and was walking so fast like she was late to a yoga class as she was wearing a yoga pant. Yeah… I was not inspired as well. She told me that she was on her way to the gym but that she had time. I took it as she hooked. She just usually walks fast when she is alone.

I told her that she was like one of those professional bankers in London, always running and she laughed. Yeah… not the best but I guess my sub-communication to make up for my not very inspired verbal game.

I learned that she was a student in tourism and also works part-time for a Russian tour agency. I told her about myself in return.

She called me “Sweet”. It’s kinda friendly but I took it and awarded her with a compliment. I told her she had quite a cute smile when she does smile.

The set was about 7-8 minutes in so I decided to close. I told her that I find her attractive and got her number.

Messaging on WhatsApp

She replied to the first message about two hours later. I found out that despite the not so good verbal game that I ran on her, the reason she hooked, was just because she found that was quite a magical moment to meet like that on the streets. Obviously, she doesn’t know I’ve done it over 2000 times 😄.

So basically, just approaching her was enough.

We sent back and fore pings about the gym and I teased her about wearing a Hello Kitty! Pyjama. I actually do that quite often when I managed to get a conversation going before bedtime. I assumed what they are wearing, something cute or sexy and whenever I can I photo ping a picture of the pyjama. Obviously, calibrate, don’t go too sexual with lingerie photo ping straight away if you have only exchanged a couple of pings.

She laughed and said that she had flower pattern pyjama.

I sent a date request right after and she accepted it but said to meet at 20:00 instead of 19:00. I agreed.

We did a couple of comfort chit-chat – Her telling me about her day and me telling her about mine until the date day.

But unfortunately, she canceled 30 minutes or so before the date time with the excuse that her dad was home, it was his birthday the next before, and she wanted to have a dinner with her whole family together. She did offer another day but I couldn’t because I was flying to Paris for a long weekend and told that we will see when I’ll be back.

I photo pinged her a picture of my glass of wine I was drinking while waiting for my flight at the airport. She just replied “Very nice! 😍😍😍”.

While in Paris, I got inspired by the environment so I detailed her how our date would be if she would be in Paris. I guess it was a bit of a DHV.

When I got back from Paris. I sent her another date request. She accepted it but then I had to cancel. I actually don’t remember why.

She messaged me that she was going to the gym. I teased saying that she doesn’t actually workout at the gym but she was going there to take selfies. She laughed but said that she does take selfies. I went on a little bit further and told her that she will then post them on Instagram but if she doesn’t get 100 likes within an hour she will remove them. She just sent me “😁😁😁”.

Then it was the Halloween weekend, where I met the Polish student on Erasmus (see below tweet). I pinged her from about was I was doing, followed by another date request. She accepted and this time we did meet.

Date 1

She is the girl the below tweet.

She arrived dressed not sexy but cute. Pink top, tight black jeans with black small boots with her hair tight up in ponytail. Obviously, it’s just one of the indicators but made a mental note that she didn’t come out expecting sex.

I led her to the Howl bar. We were about to sit when the waitress told her that they will be a talk about Russian art in 15 minutes. I decided not to stay and led her to the bar inside the Novotel across the streets [1].

We went to the bar to get two glasses of Merlot while was picking a table. She picked a table with two armchairs.

I started with a funny/embarrassing story that happened to me about a month ago. I’ve been using this story as a first thing to say at the venue 1 or when getting the venue 1 ever since with good results and kinda to break the ice.

So the story is that I was sitting on metro in St. Petersburg, while I suddenly stood up to get out as I was about miss my station, and my jean cracked right between my legs. It was a small crack but I wasn’t sure if people would notice. With the right delivery, they’ve all laughed so at that moment. Then I continued with the story. I was on my way get a few drinks with friends and I was thinking if I should go home and change or go straight to the bar to meet my friends. But then when I was on the platform, I noticed people looking at me. I was like “Yeah, they can definitely see the crack”. Again with the with the right delivery, y they will say some that “Ohhh! It must be soooo embarrassing” or something along those lines.

After that, story, she was way more relaxed and initiated some comfort chit-chat. We basically told about our life, family, hobbies for like 30 minutes. She seems shy but she was talking a lot! And not drinking her wine fast enough so that I could bounce her to venue 2. There were a few kids playing around and they were quite noisy, so I didn’t bounce her to another venue but used the kids as an excuse to move to a more isolated table. It was still two armchairs but I moved mine next to her.

I ran up the photo routines with the stories associated while doing some social kino. Very classic, nothing groundbreaking here. She reciprocated. Her phone kept ringing and receiving notifications but she was ignoring them. I stopped the photo routine mid-way to check her nails and her earning buy replacing her hair behind her ear. I resumed the photo routine while taking her hands. She didn’t squeeze back but she was not taking her hand away either. When I finished the photo routine and told her all those stories. She had a fascinating look with sparking anime-like eyes. I went for the kiss but I got the cheek. I didn’t say anything and just smiled [2].

I asked her which countries she had been too. She told me the Baltics and Netherlands and that she was going to Prague with a couple friends the next day.

I put the conversation toward more seduction topics so to speak and asked her when was last time she was on a date. She told me when I was in Paris. She said it was a Russian guy she met with social circle. She said he was ok but boring.

Without me asking her, she mentioned about her previous relationships. Last time she had a boyfriend was over a year ago. Then she asked me when was last time I had a girlfriend. I gave a PUA like answer at first, the “I have 378 girlfriends, one per day or the week and per country”. She laughed but I could see she wanted a serious answer.

I didn’t mention they were my girlfriend because they were not but I told her the stories of the Tallinn girl and the Romanian Accountant, and how they were “having fun” with me while they used in a committed relationship, the Romanian ever got engaged a few days after were having sex.

Obviously, she bitched of them and said how horrible they were. I didn’t agree with me but told her that they were not faithful but that part apart, they were fantastic girls and in all seriousness, I did care and feel for both of them, actually more than all the other girls I’ve met.

I was actually sincere and she could see it. She was not pissed or anything but she cooled down, and then she was looking at me straight into the eyes and all I wanted at the moment was to kiss her. So I pulled her in and kissed her. She didn’t resist and then she kissed me back.

I rolled back and asked her what was the craziest thing she has done. It took her a while but she told me that during her first year at the university, she used to go out clubbing a lot and a couple of times, she danced on the bar.

Soon after, her phone rang again and this time she picked her. It was one of her friends she went to Prague with the next day. Then she realized that it was late. It was around midnight if I remember well, and she had to catch her flight to Prague in the morning.

I kissed her goodbye before she got into the car.

[1] I was there a couple of days ago for a French community event and I thought it was a bright, quiet and stylish place. A good venue 1 basically. 

[2] Yeah, just more comfort.

Date 1 with a Russian Electrical Engineer

The approach/open

She is another girl I approached in a bar. It was the week before the Halloween weekend [1]. I was at a birthday party of an Amercian friend. We were a rather small group and it was more a low key party and relatively chilled bar. I was just hanging with the group and enjoying a beer when I saw her at the bar. She was ordering a wine. She has a sexy black dress, long black hair, with big wide green eyes, small built, ballerina body type but with a typical Russian ice queen face expression.

Russian Electrical Engineer
She was actually cuter and slimmer

I excused myself and approached. I opened direct telling her she looked cute and that she all black look made me think of a witch and asked her where was her pointy hat. Yep! She laughed and to my surprise, her English was pretty good. She got a glass of wine so we cheered and she hooked by asking me where I was from and what I was doing in St. Peterburg. Classic questions. She thought I was a student in exchange actually. I told her I was from France. She teased me by saying that I was from France but I had a pint of beer instead of a glass of wine. That when I took the opportunity to get her number. I told her that as a man I love beer but as a French, I also love wine. but it’s always a dilemma. But that another time we could go for a proper French red wine, and took out my phone, entered he name and handed my phone to her so that she could enter her number.

We kept talking a bit about why she was there and she told me she was on a girls night out and her friends were sitting upstairs. She also mentioned her love for Italy and Italian food. At the point, I could sense she wanted to go so I ended the interaction first by saying that I had to go back to my friend but that I will message her later tonight when I’ll be home.

Messaging on WhatsApp

She was not every responsive at the beginning. A lot of short messages and she took quite some time to reply as well. I thought she was not in or not that attracted to me. Then during the Halloween night, I was at the Howl Bar drinking beer before heading to Takao for another party, where I will be meeting the Polish student on Erasmus [2] on the below tweet, I photo pinged her a spooky pumpkin cocktail that was on the barand the messaging accelerated.

We were just having a fun flirty conversation over WhatsApp before I headed to the other party. I teased her about not going to the gym. She asked me it thought she was fat. I agreed and amplified with “Haha! You are sooooooooo fat! Of course! The fatter girl in the whole universe ;)”. Then she was telling me that she used to go to the gym but not anymore and blablabla.

I replied that all I could hear was excuses for not going to the gym and went for the date request that she accepted.

We kept chatting a bit, some teasing and comfort until the date about French cuisine and how she loves frog legs and how I don’t! She mentioned that she loves black cats and since it was the Halloween period, I pinged her a photo of catwoman played by Anne Hathaway in movie “The Dark Knight Rises”, and told that it would be the perfect Halloween costume for me.


Date 1

We met at Mayakovskaya metro station at 19:00.

I was fashionably late and she pretended to be mad but I just ignored it. I led her to the howl bar as a venue 1. The waitress let us know that they will be a talk in 30 minutes, which is good as they provided the excuse to bounce to venue 2. We got a glass of Merlot each.

Classically, venue 1 was 90% comfort talk. We talked a family, jobs and travels. She was very invested earlier on. She doesn’t have any good relationship with any of her parents, love to go to Italy 🇮🇹 and well like most people I guess she was unhappy with her job, which is electrical engineer. I learned also that she was 27 years old. I also shared a bit about my life, my favorite holidays places and told her about my family as well.

We finished our glasses and I bounced her to a wine bar a couple of blocks away. I don’t know the name, I just passed by a couple of days ago before the date and I thought it was a pretty good seductive venue, low lights, A lot of isolated couches and not expensive as well. So I led her to the end of room with a table with couches. She sat on the couch and I sat on the chair. I didn’t feel like she was ready to be physically escalated so to speak.

We ordered red wine again. She was pretty negative in general. She was really not happy about her life but at the same time she wasn’t doing anything to change it. At some point I called it out and she was a bit chocked but eventually she agrees with me. In short she was dreaming about moving to big international cities like London, New York, etc. and St. Petersburg couldn’t provide her with enough professional opportunities and also meeting interesting people.

I think we were close to two hour in and I haven’t escalated yet. So I just told her that she has quite sexy legs. She just replied “Hmmm… Good to know”. I followed with asking her questions from the questions game. I started with what is the craziest thing she has even done. She couldn’t come up with anything. I told her my story. Then I asked her if she could go anywhere in the world right now where she would go. With no surprise, she replied Italy. I asked her to pick another country. Then she said Brazil. Then I decided to pull out the photo routine and moved to the couch next to her. I actually had to ask her make some place for me. So I process with the photo and telling her stories about the different photos. She started to touch my arms, then “accidentally” touch my hands a couple of times. It was on! I moved to the ring routine and grabbed her hand while rolling out the routine. We got another glass of red wine. Her femininity and smell were intoxicating I just wanted to kiss her. I started to massage her neck for a couple of minutes. Then I grabbed her neck and turned her head toward me and kissed her. She kissed me back. I stopped. Then we kissed again. A couple of minutes later we were making out. She was grabbing my hand harder. It was time to go for the pull with “I have a bottle of red at mine”. But she was not having it. She said that she likes me but it was too fast and it was getting late. Working day the next day. I insisted but she resisted but she said next time and suggested Saturday. I was good enough and she is Russian after all. We kissed some more and she got an uber back home.

[1] She is not on my stats as I only track my Daygame.[2] That will be for another post.

Lay with Crazy Russian-Yakut girl

This is a long due lay report. I started it a couple of weeks but never got the chance to finish it until now. Yeah, I have been very busy.


This a girl I’ve approached bar over a month ago, maybe two months ago, [1] while I was out with a few colleague for a couple of beers. She was with a group of friends (guys and girls) but I noticed she was looking at me from time to time. She had an interesting look, Russian mixed with some Asian features. I will find out later that she is half Russian half Yakut [2]. So she had some kind of Mongol/Turkic blood.

Russian Yakut.jpg
Kinda like her with a bit more boobs.

To be honest, I chickened out of approaching the whole group even after getting obvious IOI, and was just hanging out with my colleagues. About 30 minutes later, I had to take a piss so went to the bathroom. When I got back, she was outside smoking alone. It was just the perfect time to approach. So I went outside and opened with “Hey! I hope you speak English”. She replied that she does and I followed with “I noticed you were looking at me”. She laughed and I just started stacking telling her that she was Russian but she had some kinda of Asian features. That when she told me she was half Yakut. I honestly didn’t know anything about Yakut people. So she went into a semi-monologue. I was just half listening and I couldn’t help but look down at her cleavage. She noticed so I just called it out saying that I’m a man and I enjoy admiring girls. We both laughed it off. At least there were no doubts anymore that I found her attractive.

She told me she was in a 2 or 3 years nursing program under some kind of scholarship, in the way that after completing the program, she will have to go back to the Sakha, to work there for a hospital for a few years. I grounded and told her about myself and what I was doing in St Petersburg.

I noticed that she was about to finish her cigarette, so I decided to go for the number but she didn’t want to give it to me. But gave me her Telegram ID instead and we both were back to our respective friends.

Messaging over Telegram

She was pretty cold over Telegram for a couple of weeks: giving one-word messages or short sentences and were taking quite some time to reply. I just assumed that she was not on. So I stopped messaging her. But surprising after a couple of weeks, she messaged me out of nowhere “What are you going?” and we started to message again with basic comfort topics: work, food, holidays. I did a couple of photo pings, where I was in business trip in Guilford/London.

One photo ping of a Belgium waffle with whipped cream and ice cream turned the conversation more sexual. I messaged her that it was tasting like a piece of heaven. She said she wanted to try. I replied that it’s only for bad guys and good girls are not allowed to try. She replied that she was not good. I amplified telling her she was too good and a total angel. She replied that she was cute and sweet. Then I amplified again and told her “Yeah sweet and cute like a Belgium waffle. I would eat you”. She got back to me with “Pervert!”. I replied that I was a professional pervert and she should know that by now.

Then she told me that I wanted to rape her. Yeah I know! WTF! But then she continued saying that I seem dangerous but she likes it. I told her she should run far away from me. Then she said that if I tried to rape her (yeah again!) she can fight me off. I told her that maybe she will rape me and I should run far away from her.

Then she told me she would rape me with her Iron Fist technique. Yeah, I know, this is getting crazy-ish. But I kept going and asked her if she likes sado-BDSM stuff. She didn’t reply and just accused me of getting excited by her. It was totally verbally direct. I went on telling her that she likes it and asked her out. This whole crazy and somehow very foward attidude will make more sense on the date. So just bear with me for now.

She agreed but she said no sex. I asked her if she really thinks I was a beast. She replied that she was young and she doesn’t have experience like me. I told her that she doesn’t have to do anything that she doesn’t feel comfortable with and she was welcome to leave anytime during the date.

Date 1

As usual on dates, we met at Mayakovskaya metro station. Shit tests started straight away and all the way to the lay. It was just shit test after shit test from then on. I was one minute late and she called it out with an angry or maybe pretended angry face. We started to walk and she wanted to go another way. I just ignored with a smile and kept walking. We got into the coffee next door. I asked her to find a table and I will order the drinks. She refused. Again, I ignored it and she followed me to the counter, I didn’t ask her what she wanted and just ordered two lattes. We went to see at the table next to the windows. Her first question was “What do you want from me?” and continued without waiting for my answer with “I hope not sex”. In my mind I was actually thinking “This is gonna be fun”. I kept ignoring her tests and smiled. But she asked me the question again and this time followed by “A relationship”. This time I replied “We just met. Should I asked you to marry me now?” and went on a married couple role play. She finally cracked a bit of a smile.

I didn’t ask her anything and she went on a monologue about politics and how the government don’t support small regions in Russia and the difference between Russian and Russian citizens. I asked if she always talks so much as a tease. She hit me so I hit her back and told her that I was surprised she wanted to be a nurse as she was not sweet at all. It was like that during the whole venue 1! We finished our lattes and I led her to the Howl Bar. On the way there again she asked “Are you gonna rape me?”. I just laughed.  Again a lot of this will make more sense later.

At Howl bar, I sat on the couch and she got the table. We got a bit more serious and actually even went into deep comfort naturally. She took me about her childhood and how poor her family was and showed me some pictures from her home city and her family, even pictures of her when she was a kid and teenager. I did the same and told her more about myself and my life in Paris. It was a rather emotional moment and I just felt it was the right time to go for the kiss. I pulled her in but she wouldn’t let me and called it off “Are you trying to kiss me? Pervert!”. Yeah, you know when we learned that with girls most of the game is sub-communication, well she was just calling out everything that was obvious or subjective. It was actually fun at the moment. I rolled back in term of physical escalation and tried to take her hand but she would let me. I tried to start the photo routine and told her to stop next to me but she wouldn’t comply.

I tried a few times with a smile until she asked me again “What do you want from me?”. I pulled out the “I’m the man, you are an attractive girl and it’s my job to seduce you”. She just replied “Oh! You think I’m attractive?” I replied “No, you are obviously repelling” and didn’t give a fuck about being smooth and pulled her in again to try to kiss her. But she wouldn’t let me. At the point I was thinking either she is playing with me or she was just one of those girls who doesn’t like to kiss in public. So I went for the bounce back without asking her. I asked for the bill. I told her to grab her purse and put on her clothes. Surprisingly, she didn’t give me a shit test. We went out of the bar and started to cross the street, she followed me and finally asked me where we were going. I told her “To my place. I have some wine and I felt like drinking some”. She said “Ok but no sex”. I was still amazing how forward she was in a way! I ignored it and kept walking by to my place.

I forgot to mention that she was wearing a sexy black dress with black heel boots.

Back at mine she sat on the couch and I voiced turn on the music on my Google Home. I said she didn’t like the music. Yeah, she kept going with the shit tests. So she voiced stop it. I was just opening the wine and poured it on the glasses. I went back to her with the glasses and sat next to her but she called it out again “What are you doing?”, then stand up out the stuff on the other couch and sat there [3].

She finished her glass pretty fast and poured herself another one, and my surprise, she went sat next to me and put her legs over my mine. I will be honest, at the point, I really wanted to fuck her. She was making me feel horny and took the decision to push it a hard as I can even if I had to burn it.

I went for the hand again, but she would let me. So tried again, told her hand and pulled her in faster and with more force. It’s not my style but she actually loved it that I was more aggressive so to speak. Again, a lot of those will make more sense later.

She started to have fun with my Google Home and asked it to play different songs and there were all hardcore heavy metal song. I went for the kiss again but she moved back her head. But then told me she wanted to show me about the Yakut kiss. I was curious so I let her. Basically, the Yakut kiss is basically putting the nose on the cheek first, sniff it and then a light barely touching kiss on the cheek. Yeah, very conservative and friendly kiss. I was not a fan and told her. She went on about how it was romantic and hygienic.

The date started at 20:00 and it was past midnight, I bounced her back and I haven’t even manage to properly kiss her yet.

But that when the closed to 3 fucking hours LMR and her showing up her cock tease skills started.

She went to use the bathroom and came back without tights and sat on my laps facing me. I tried to kiss her again but she wouldn’t let me again. Then she went on the dinning table and danced for a while, maybe 10 or 15 minutes. She took her her bra off while keeping her dress. I was going insane! I was really turned on at this point. She went back to sit on my lab and was pushing her body against me but every time I would try to put my hand anywhere on her body, she would stop me. Then she started to fucking slap me! First slap was ok but then she slapped me a second time and this time it did hurt! I didn’t it so I grabbed her by the hips and moved her off me.

She complied and said that she won’t slap me again but she will during the sex! She went to get her phone and started to show me pictures of her on sexy poses at first and then closed-up pictures of her boobs, ass and pussy. Yeah…. crazy crazy naughty! I was reaching my playing game tolerance line. I grabed her hand, led her to the bedroom and pushed her on the bed. I went on the top and tried to kiss her again. But she moved her face. I got off her and I was about to call it a quit. But she took off her dress. The one piece of clothing left was her pantie. I went back on her and tried to kiss her again. It was another no. I was really getting tired of game or being gamed, so I put my foot down and told her “It’s enough! Just leave! I’m done playing game”. She was a shocked and said “Ok! Ok! I’m sorry!”. I went in for the kiss again and soon after we were making out. Finally, we are kissing 5 hours-ich into the date! I started to caress her boobs and played with her nipple. She kept asking me grab her nipples harder and harder. I seriously thought I would hurt her. But she was loving it and got more and more turned on. She slapped me in the face again. She tried to slap me again but I stopped her and told not to do it again [4].

We went it on her with me on the top and she started to scratch my back very hard and then she bit me hard on several places. She was also slapped my butt multiple times and asked me to slap her and she obviously she wanted to be slapped very hard.

One of the bites mark she left on me

She had sex five more times that night until the sunrise and she wanted me but I was dead.

I tried to have the post-sex interview but she wouldn’t reply seriously to any of my questions. So I was not able to find out when she decided to have sex with me and what she liked about me.

The view after she got back from the shower in the morning


We met again about a week later but she was too weird/crazy for me sex-wise. She was showing me regular porn videos at first, then videos about a man without legs having sex with multiple girls, then a video of a guy with massive pending testicles with people playing with them. When we had sex again, she wanted me to slap and hit her harder. She ruined my back by scratching it until bleeding. I was honest with her and told her that I didn’t like it and that actually turning me off. She told me that the more I hurt her the most she felt alive. Yeah… Maybe a girl for some of you guys but really not for me!

[1] I only track my Daygame.

[2] People from the Republic of Sakha Republic.

[3] I have another couch but I put a guest blanket and two pillows there on purpose so that there is only one couch girls can sit on.

[4] Maybe I’m too vanilla and some of you guys like that but I really don’t!

Lay report with a French Speaking Blondie

This a very late lay report. As mentioned on last September review post, I’ve been extremely busy with work.

French speaking blondie
More a cute face than a hot face but body is close enough.

Messaging on Facebook

Following the Date 1 with ended with near miss. We are back on Facebook Messenger.

More multiples reasons the timing was not great to get her out again for a Date 2 at mine for a Raclette and wine, as seeded on Date 1. I’m not gonna go into too many details as it was a long thread from basically the end of Date 1 on August 23 until Date 2 on September 20.

But to sum up, we talked about wine glasses, red heels shoes, MacBook [1], Thai food and her work. She messaged me a lot of pictures: her lunch, her shopping, her weekend with friends, her friend’s wedding and her holidays with he mum in Italy.

I finally took her out on Date 2 at mine for a Raclette a month after.

Date 2

We met a bit after 20:00 directly at my place. She showed in a black cocktail dress and had ridiculously high heel shoes but damn she was looking fine!  She also bought a bottle of red wine. I took the bottle, told her she looks very sexy but that I’m sure she can’t wait to take out those shoes. She just replied “Oh YES!”. We both laughed.

She sat on the couch while waiting for the potatoes to be cooked. Everything else was already set up. The raclette machine, the cheese, and the smoked meats were already on the table [2].

I opened her bottle of wine and we get a glass while waiting for the potatoes to be ready. She just told me about her day and I told her about mine. I hold her hand a bit but nothing more.

After 10 minutes or so, we moved to the table and we basically had dinner and talked about some comfort chit-chat blabla.

She asked if I had something for dessert after the meal. I didn’t have anything and I just told me that I was the dessert. Yep! Cheesy like hell! But she laughed and said that it was nice.

We moved back to the couch with the bottle of wine and the glasses. It slowly got more sexual as we were sitting comfortably next to each other and eyes contact got stronger and deeper as well. She clearly wanted to be kissed. So I pulled her in and we kissed, which quickly turned out quickly to a make out. It got slowly heavier and she started to put her tongue deeper into my mouth. Our hands starteds to wander. I stopped the make out at some point and looked her her. She was blushing and I told her it was cute. She hit me. Then I pulled her in again but kissed her on her neck and smelled her. She was getting more and more turn on.

I led her by the hand to the bedroom, she was a bit hesitant and she said she wanted to use the bathroom. After about 5 minutes, she came back without her tights. Yeah! Definitely a very green light!

I pull her down on the couch and kissed her heavily and grabbed her ass. Then I put her hand on my dick over the jean. She started to caress it. I unbuttoned my jeans and she put her hand under my boxer and started to give me a handjob. I tried to put her head down me she wouldn’t.

I grabbed her hand again and led her to the bedroom. This time with no resistance. I pushed her on the bed and went on the top and started making out. I slowly move my hand up her leg under her dress and as soon as I touched her pussy over her string, she screamed and moaned. Her string was very warmed and wet. I pulled it down slowly her along her legs slowly while looking at her and took off on. I went back on the top and fingered her. Then I took my t-shirt and she took her dress off. I took off her bra. I leaned back a bit just to enjoy the view. She had proper bouncy boobs and I’m a boobs guy. I went back at her for more kissing while fully grabbing her boob for a few minutes then she told me to grab a condom. I went in and we had sex. We had a post-sex talk and went on for another round with her on top.

Post sex talk

She told me that she really would like to find a good man and have a serious relationship and she basically told me that I would be a great boyfriend. But she knew I was not looking for a relationship. I’d never clearly said it but she could feel it. It was the main reason why she hold off on Date 1. The other reason was that she didn’t shave properly her legs as she was not expecting sex.

She knew that Date 2 at mine means sex and she wanted it. She has had sex for over a year! And last time it was with her ex.

She found blowjob disgusting.

She told me she loves my ass and labs. She said that they are smooth and firmed. OK, OK, too much details! But I guess I’ve been squatting for nothing.

[1] Yeah… I know, not a sexy topic but well it’s “normal”. 

[2] I know kind romantic and cheesy but well it worked. 


Date 1 with Zatanna

Busy month as expected. I drafted this post on the flight on my way back to St Petersburg from London. Not a holidays guys! Just a crazy working week visiting a client in a small town outside of London. But I still managed to go on this date and another one from Nightgame [1].


It was on August 9, inside Nevsky Prospect metro station after work. I was about to step on the elevator to exit the station when I saw her on the opposite elevator, going down. There were quite a lot people as it was rush hours. I followed her a bit and approached in the middle of the metro platform.
She had a ballerina body’s type, black hair, wearing a black and white summer dress and a tall black magician hat. She just reminded me of Zatanna, the mistress of magic from the DC universe. Yeah I know, I’m geeky superheroes fan.
So I used this to stack and told her she looked like Zatanna. Her English was very limited but I’m used to that by now in Russia. She smiled and seemed to like that she sees. She had no idea who was Zatanna. So I pulled out my phone and googled a picture of her. She laughed and said that she saw her somewhere but didn’t know her name was Zatanna.
She hooked a bit after that by asking me the classic “Where am I from” question. We vibed about Paris for a couple of minutes and moved into comfort. I just had the time to find out she was studying something related to optics and was from somewhere in the very east of Russia. She had to go meet friends. So I got her number. It was expected as we were on the metro platform.

Messaging on WhatsApp

I messaged her the feeler around 21:00 the same day. She replied a couple minutes after apologizing about her bad English. I agreed and amplified.
The following weekend I was off for a long weekend in Tallinn to deal with bank stuff. I did a couple of photo pings from there. It was on August 13. She read my photo pings but didn’t reply. I thought it was a dead lead.
Over a week alter, on August 24, I sent the “Alive?!” resurrection ping [2] and to my surprise, she replied the next day.
We exchanged a few back and forth messages about her learning new magic tricks referring to Zatanna, and sent her a date request that she accepted.

Date 1

As usual, we meet at the Mayakovkaya metro station at 19:00 on September 4. It was chilly that night so she was wearing a long wooly gray dress, black boot, and black leather jacket. She came with her trademark black magician hat. She put her on my head as a greeting. Yeah, she was a fun happy type of girl. I like them!
I took her the coffee right next to the station. We ordered a cup of latte each at the counter and got a table next to the window. Her English was limited and I was a bit lazy to put out Google Translate so we had very basic comfort conversation using simple words and gestures. She just talked me she loves to sleep, wanted to change her major at the university. She was 20 years old, lived in a dorm room with 3 other girls and moved to St Petersburg about her year ago to study. I told her bit about my hobbies.
After about 45 minutes, I bounced her to the Howl Bar. We got a table with a bench and she sat on the chair. The staff knows me well by now. So the waitress just said “Two glass of Merlot?”. I just said yes.
I led the conversation into travel and logically started the photo routine and as usual for the photo routine, I told her to come sit next to me as it would be more convenient. Still, as usual, I went through the photos supporting by short DHV stories. She was fascinated as she had never been abroad. Half way though the photo routine, I didn’t even bother going for an excuse and just took her hands and kept going though the photo with the other hand. I started to caress her hand. She didn’t caress or squeeze my hand back. But didn’t take her hand off either.
At the end of the routine, she took off her hand to use her phone and then showed me pictures of her hometown and her family. I was not sure she is was on or more how on she was. And I know it’s scary for most guys but the best way to find out to find out if a girl is on or no, is to physically escalate. So as she was commenting on the pictures, was looked more intensely at her, and when she looked at me I leaned in for the kiss. But I got the cheek.
I just smiled and just asked her to carry on with the pictures. I took a step back and touched her hair, put them behind her ear and started to check her earnings. She just let me and was just swiping pictures.
Then we switched to food and drink topic. I told her that I brought back my raclette machine from Tallinn [3]. She didn’t know what it was so I googled pictures of how to eat raclette. She got closer to me so I leaned in for second kiss attempt. But I got the cheek again. We put smiled and I told her that I understand that it was too fast, especially in Russia. Then she asked me if girls kiss on the first date in Europe. I didn’t reply but gave her the “Society judges girls harder when it comes to kissing and sex, and that it was unfair” talk. She agreed and went for the kiss again. This time, she accepted. But it was just a small one.
As we were finishing our wine, I suggested getting another round at my place. She said she was too tired and had an earlier class in the morning. I told her to skip it. She laughed and said that it was the beginning of the end, she had to be serious. I told her that she was just pretending to be a good girl but I knew she is bad and crazy. I pulled her in again for a kiss. This one lasted a bit longer.
I went to the bathroom and paid the bill at the bar on my way back. I asked her to grab her purse and put her jacket on. I took her hand and led her out of the bar up to the front gate of my building. But she wouldn’t come in. I didn’t insist, told her “I understand! Another time” and suggested doing a raclette. She replied, “It would be great”.
I walked her back to the metro station and ended the date.
[1] I won’t be written a report on it unless I manage to get a lay or near miss. I have to be selective based on the limited time I have. So unless there are interesting/crazy dates, I won’t be posting dates from other that Daygame
[2] Credits to Tom Torrero 
[3] I left a small bag with the raclette machine in it at a friend’s place when I moved out of Tallinn