Yeah I know don’t shit where you eat. Maybe I should have asked her out but she is very hot and very much my type physical. She is a hell of a flirter and one of the most feminine Russian girl, I’ve never met. I’ve been on three dates with her so far below the story so far.
This is not a typical lead from game some to speak but from work. It’s kinda more normal so to speak. So I guess some background would be helpful.
She is literally the second girl I’ve met in St. Petersburg in January. She welcomed me at work and did all the first initial administrative stuff. I got a big splash of attraction for her as soon as I saw her. She is a very beautiful girl, small build, slim body, ideal figure for me. She always wears sexy but yet formal dresses and always with nice heels and a cute smile all the time.
The flirting started straight for the beginning. I can confirm that because she told me on Date 2. Not verbally but sub-communication. Note that I rarely go to the administration office where she works. I’ve been that only a couple of times since 9-10 months. But when we would meet elsewhere in the office, she would always give me short but strong eyes contact, smiled at me to get me to look at her. It’s hard to explain it was just flirty all the single time. I remembered teasing her about being lazy and not taking the stairs. We will also small talks in the kitchen from time to time. We were always professional but everything was in the sub-communication.
I’ve always wanted to make a move but because we work for the same company I’ve never tried up until right before going to Hong Kong in November. We randomly met on our way out outside the office and we took a metro ride to the center together.
I got even flirtier and in the metro, she was standing pretty close to me, a couple of times we were face to face and at each stop, she would squeeze by arm with both hands. I told her about my trip to Hong Kong and I decided to take her number so that I could send her some pictures on WhatsApp right before I got out at my station.
Messaging on WhatsApp while in Hong Kong
I sent a ping on my stopover in Moscow and from then on, she messaged every single day I was in Hong Kong. We basically got to know each other over WhatsApp.
She turned out to be very funny, positive, fun and not taking things seriously. It was easy and a pleasure to message her. It was natural or I guess we could call it the “perfect” text game. We connected well and she was sending me so many signs that she was fancying me for months and the messaging, while I was in Hong Kong, was very on. I couldn’t resist and toward the end of the trip, I sent her a date request and called the whole “working for the same company” situation. She is kinda “living in the moment” and said to meet and take it from there.
Date 1 – November 27
We met at Mayakovkaya at 19:30 and we went to the Howl Bar. She had a typical trademarked Russian dress style but with boots instead of her typical high heel shoes. It was not the best weather to wear high heels.
We sat on a table next to the window. We sat on some pillow, on the edge of the window. She confirmed that she likes me from Day 1, as she finds me cute and gave a positive vibe to the office. She thought I would never ask her out and was so feeling so relieved when I finally asked for her number. We took a bit about office gossips and parties. Then I bounced her back after we finished our glass of wine. It was pretty easy to bounce. But it was not in the way that something would happen but more that she was feeling safe as we knew each other for months.
Back at mine, she took out he coat and boots and went to sit on the couch while I was opening a bottle of wine. I went sit next to her on the couch with the glasses. She told me a bit about her family. I asked her about her best and worth dates. She replied and returned back the questions to me. Then she showed me pictures from her Instagram.
Then I pulled her in for a kiss. It feels natural. She kissed me back. Then she just called out “I can’t believe, Seven kissed me” like a little girl. We kissed again with some tongue this time.
It was getting late and she starts working at 8 in the morning and said she wanted to go. I didn’t try to make her stay. She ordered an Uber and left a few minutes after.
I played it very safe and slow because in my mind I kept thinking that we work in the same company.
Date 2 – November 30
We meet at Chyornaya Rechka, which is the metro station closes to our office, and went the Kafe-Bar Gastrolor, close to Mayakovkaya, which means close to my place.
We got a table with a couch and we both sat on the couch next to each other. We got a glass of red wine each and she started to tell me about her day and I told her about mine. She had a very elegant white dress and I complimented on that but also about her dresses, her femininity, and how Russian she is.
She blushed a bit and teased her about it. She hit me on the shoulder and then was just holding my arm. It was very couplely so to speak. She asked me where does my confidence come from. I have to say it boots a bit my ego. I knew I’ve gotten more confident in girls thanks to all those game hours but I don’t feel good when especially a beautiful girl calls it out. On the spot, my reaction was to just smile and not say anything. Then she asked how if I’ve met many girls in St. Petersburg and how do I meet them. In general, I take those kinds of questions as the girl is shit testing me but I didn’t feel like she was. I didn’t call in Daygme obviously but just talked her that I can talk easily to strangers anywhere.
Then she told me how she usually meets guys, which is in bars or social circle. Nothing surprising here. She mentioned that her ex-boyfriend was Italian and he picked her up at a bar. He was only in St. Petersburg on holidays, he took her number and messaged for a couple of months on WhatsApp before he came back to St. Petersburg. They were in a long distance relationship for a year and he proposed to her. But she said “no”. She just told me that she was not feeling it. She also mentioned that many guys in the office have asked her out but true or not, I’m the first one from work she has been on a date with.
She asked me what kind of girls I like as in my previous girlfriends. I did not reply directly to her question but I told her the story of the Romanian Accountant Student and Miss Sunflower. They are two great DHV-like stories with pre-selection and quite some romanticism but also some cheating. I also did care a lot for both of them. It just naturally makes easier to tell those stories.
Then we made out for a few minutes until the waitress came to let us know they were closing in 5 minutes. I bounced her back to mine. She just agreed.
Back at mine, it was the usual at the beginning: a little tour, then drinking some wine on the couch, physical escalation fractionated with some comfort chit-chat.
I accelerated the physical escalation after about an hour. We made out heavier, more and more wandering hands. I put her legs on my labs then made her sat on them. We made out for a while with her on them.
Then I grabbed her legs that were wrapped around me and carried her to the bed.
I went on the top of her and we made out more. I grabbed her ass over her dress. Then LMRs kicked in. I stopped me from grabbing her ass under her dress and completely stopped after I grabbed her boobs over her dress.
She was not pissed or anything. She just said it was too fast. I just agreed and rolled back and did some comfort. We talked about sexual topics. I teased her about being a virgin. She blushed a but replied that she hasn’t had sex for over a year and last time was with her ex-boyfriend. She asked me when was last time I had sex. I tried to agree and amplify by saying “At work, today”. But she wanted a serious answer. It was honest and told her that I had sex in Hong Kong.
To my surprise, she was not surprised. She told me “From what I can see, you seem to be good with women”. I have to say, it did flatter my ego a lot. I tried not to smile too much.
I re-initiated the physical escalation, by kissing her, which lead quickly to another heavy make-out session. She let grabbed her ass. It was her limit. I put her hand on my cock, she took it out straight away. I tried to zip her dress, she stopped me as well.
I kept trying until about 4 in the morning and gave up. She wanted to stay at mine to sleep. I thought about trying the “Have sex in the morning” move but I was really tried and I spent way better alone. I’ve made significant progress and I knew I will get her out again. So I actually told her that it’s better if she goes because otherwise, I would keep trying.
She left on an Uber at about 4:30.
Date 3 – December 7
It was a short date of like 45 minutes as she had to go to see an opera play with her mum. So I knew already I wasn’t gonna get lucky with her that day. Here the “beta” reason, I decided to take her out still because I actually like spend some time with her. I’ve been on a lot of dates and I think I’ve mentioned it before but unfortunately, most of the girls have been boring or not very interesting. This one is witty, funny, banter well and positive. It’s refreshing.
We went to the Friendly Hugs Bar to drink some seasoned mulled wine.
She was telling me about Russian Orthodox Christmas traditions. She is quite a little girl on the inside. She is very into Christmas, the food, the mood, the decorations, the traditions in general and quite traditionally family oriented. I find it sweet.
I told her as an Asian descendant, Christmas is mainly an opportunity to have a wider family dinner.
We kissed and made out a bit. But that was it.