She was a girl I approached and went on a Date 1 straight at the apartment during my trip to Hong Kong last month.
In general, I’m very neutral in term of Asian girls. I don’t especially like them but I don’t especially dislike them either. But she was one of the hottest Asian girls, I’ve ever approached and gone on a date with. Definitely a solid 8. I had 2 lays during this trip. The Indonesian intern and a Filipina . Both of them were new flags. But I would have traded those two lays and flags with this Lolita Chinese-Japanese in a heartbeat!
It was on November 16, in the Tsim Sha Tsui MRT around 20:00. She walked passed me and was looking at her phone. She was really sexy, dressed in a Lolita Fashion style, with cat pattern tights and black heeled shoes with a black mini-skirt. She was pretty slim with what seems to be firm round boobs. I’m not sure but I thought I got a quick IOI. I think I saw her looking up for a second. It would have definitely regretted it hard if I wouldn’t have approached this one.
I front stopped her. I opened by telling her she was cute and had an usual style. She replied “Really?!” and I replied back ironically “No, you don’t. Obviously, all girls here dressed like you”. I continued saying that she was Japanese with this Lolita style. She laughed and replied that she was half Japanese half Chinese and was born in Shanghai and asked me where I was from and what I was doing Hong Kong. I just replied and returned the question back to her. She said she moved there only a couple of months ago and has been looking for a job. I noticed that she started to make a step toward the exit. I called it out. She told me that she was on her way to meet some friends to see a movie and she was late already and that the movie was about to start. She specified that her friends were 1 girl and 1 guy and she was not involved with the guy. It was a good sign as she basically wanted me to know that she was single.
Anyway, so I went for the number close by telling her first that she was attractive and she said straight away that she found me attractive too. Then we exchanged numbers.
I’m not calling this texting/messaging because there were almost none. I sent her the feeler message and replied with a call. Maybe you guys had this kind of experience but ever since I started to game, I’ve never had a girl call and not text at all.
We did some chit-chat over the phone for like 5 minutes and I asked her out. We agree to meet at Central for some wine on November 20.
Then, I think the next day, she called again, saying it was weird, that she didn’t know me. I did some “agree and amplify” a bit but stopped when I noticed she was serious and genuinely concerned about going out with a random guy for alcoholic drinks. She suggested just to get a coffee at a Starbucks closer to her place in Wan Chai. I settled and agreed.
The day before the date, she called to confirm the date. But then on the date day, while I just arrived at the Starbucks, she called me saying she was not coming, calling out it was too weird, not normal, not safe enough for her and got cold feet. I was pissed but I thought it didn’t make sense to convince her over the phone and basically gave up on seeing and told her I understood. And well, if you have been gaming enough, you know girls flake, gosh, disappear suddenly and no-show on dates happen as well. It still pisses me off but I got used to it and take it as “part of the game”.
But then, to my surprise, she called me at around midnight, asking me where I was. I told her that I was home. She was in a taxi and she can come to my place and asked me to tell the driver my address. I did and about 5-10 minutes later, she called again and said she was outside.
In my mind, I was like “WTF”, how can you go from not feeling comfortable and safe with a random guy in a public place to coming straight to a guy’s place!
Anyway, I went down to get her. She had a sexy tight low cut black dress. She was stunning!
In the apartment, we sat at the bar table, on high chairs, across from each other. She went on a monologue. She started in English but then switched to Cantonese. I can understand Cantonese more than I can speak. So basically she was speaking in Cantonese and I was replying in Engish. The monologue was her apologizing, explaining again that it was weird and not normal but still thought I was interesting and cute.
I didn’t jump on her. I just called her out on her behavior in a teasy way and with a smile. She giggled. I went to open a bottle of wine and offered her some ice cream.
She also told me she was 30 years old. I was very surprized. I would have given her 20. But I guess with Asians you never know.
We moved to the couch with the ice cream and wine. She told me about her life in Shanghai. I told her about Europe and Russia, and ran the photo routine. We got very close while running the photo routine. There were definitely some sparkles between us. I reached out for the hand, then moved her hair, then put her hair behind her ears. Finally leaned it for the kiss. She took it and kissed me back. I stopped and played with her hands again, verbally escalated by telling her she looked quite sexy with this dress. She blushed and I put her in for another kiss with some tongue this time. I rolled back, picked the emptied bowls and went to put them in the sink. I got back to her and refill our glasses with more wine.
I did a bit more comfort about our family this time and we kissed again, made out a bit but she would stop any further physical escalation. When my hand would get too close to her ass, she would use her hands to put them away. If the made-out would turn her too much on, she would slow it down. She would never hold hands for too long. Sometimes she would grab mine but would let it go very quickly. So I decided to roll back again for more comfort chit-chat about “hopes and dreams” before getting back to another kissing session but she would still not let me escalate.
I think it was almost 2 in the morning when she said that she had to go. I tried to make her stay by pulling her back to the couch but she would stand up again. I decided not to insist or it would feel needy. But we agreed to meet again two days later before she left in a taxi.
Unfortunately, she ghosted me after that. I messaged her but didn’t reply/called back. I tried to call her once but she didn’t pick up.
I will never know for sure but she definitely fancied me and I think it was all too “not normal” and too fast for her. She was seriously hot! So I have some regrets. I could have taken it slower but at the same time, I was running out of time in Hong Kong.
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